Ecclesiastes 1:11 reads, “There is no remembrance of former things; neither shall there be any remembrance of things that are to come with those that shall come after.” This verse speaks to the transient nature of human achievements and memories. The Preacher, traditionally identified as Solomon, reflects on the ceaseless cycles of life under the sun and how, despite humanity’s efforts and accomplishments, time inevitably leads to the forgetting of past deeds and people. This theme of vanitas, or the vanity and fleetingness of worldly endeavors, pervades the book of Ecclesiastes, prompting readers to ponder the true purpose and meaning of life. The Preacher ultimately finds that fulfillment and lasting value are found not in earthly pursuits but in fearing God and keeping His commandments.

The Bible offers reassurance and hope about the nature of relationships in heaven, though it does not provide exhaustive details about the state of our personal memories of earthly life, including family relationships. However, several passages suggest a continuity of personal identity and knowledge that implies we will recognize and remember relationships in heaven.

For example, in the story of the rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16:19-31, both individuals are depicted as retaining their identities and memories after death. The rich man remembers his brothers and expresses concern for them, indicating personal memory and recognition beyond this life.

Moreover, 1 Corinthians 13:12 says, “For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.” This suggests that in heaven, our knowledge and understanding will be complete, which would reasonably include the memory of those we have loved and known on earth.

It’s also essential to consider that heaven is described as a place of perfect joy and fellowship with God (Revelation 21:4). The relationships we have known on earth will be transformed and perfected in the context of our eternal fellowship with God and one another.

While the Bible doesn’t explicitly state that we will remember our earthly families in the way we do now, the principles of continuity of identity, awareness, and perfected relationships provide a hopeful perspective on our eternal future with God and loved ones.